subject: How to Save Your Marriage After Cheating - How to Reverse the Effects of Your Affair on Your Wife [print this page] How to Save Your Marriage After Cheating - How to Reverse the Effects of Your Affair on Your Wife
Have you cheated on your wife, and now you want to get her back?
Do you want to work as hard as you can to save your marriage after you've been unfaithful, even if it means months of trial and tribulation for your relationship?
Congratulations! If you answered yes, then there's a good chance that you'll be one of the few men who successfully heal a marriage after having had an affair.
Now, how long it'll take is really up to you and your wife, but you should definitely be prepared for a lengthy process.
Here are 3 tips that will help you to get your wife back as soon as possible:
#1. Don't Underestimate the Power of a Weekly Date
When was the last time you and your wife actually went on a date together to a nice restaurant?
I'm guessing it's been a while, even if you go to before you cheated, right? Even if it hasn't, I'm guessing that regular dates aren't exactly a huge part of your marriage right now.
The question is: Why not?
I think you'll be surprised by exactly how much good will come out of it. I mean worst case scenario you guys are put into a situation where you're forced to communicate and it leads to a fight.
Okay, that's not exactly great, but at least you were communicating!
#2. Tell Your Wife That She's an Integral Part of the Marriage
Of course, you probably don't want to use those exact words, as "Honey, your an integral part of my marriage" doesn't sound all to romantic.
However, the point remains. If you've cheated on your wife, then one of the main things that's going to be keeping her from coming back to the marriage is going to be your display of need for her. If she feels needed in the relationship then she's much more likely to want to come back, it's a simple fact of life.
This is a general rule for any healthy marriage, but you can easily use it to your advantage in this situation as well.
#3. Make It Your Goal to Earn Your Wife's Respect
Respect is one of the most underestimated parts of marriage that many men and women seem to forget about over time.
You NEED to respect your wife, just like your wife NEEDS to respect you. Without this sense of respect there's literally no hope for ever having a happy marriage.
So, if you think that you're lacking respect for your wife, then change it! Start doing things to show your wife respect.
Conversely, if you think that your wife isn't respecting you the way she should then at some point throughout the course of rebuilding your marriage you NEED to talk to her about what could be done differently.
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