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Imagine this: you are trying to find the love of your life...but in the process of doing that, you only end up chasing every guy away! Does that sound strange, or familiar? If it sounds familiar, you should pay close attention to these next tips, because they are going to take you inside a guys mind to show you exactly what you are doing that is the ULTIMATE turn off to every guy out there....
Being Emotionally Unstable GUARANTEES A Lonely Life
If you want to remain single for the rest of your life, then go ahead...be as emotionally unstable as you want. It's not that men dislike the emotional side of women, men LOVE it. BUT, men can't appreciate it if you are always doing the following:
Chasing men around desperately, because you are lonely
Clinging on to men, because you are afraid of losing them
Arguing with guys about every little thing, because you need or lack emotional fulfillment
Having high expectations on men to make you happy or to make you feel good, or to entertain you
Acting out against men or ruining things that were fine in your life 5 minutes ago, then expecting him to fix it or stick around
Etc...
The list goes on and on and on. But if you've ever had men ask you this question...
"Why are you acting like this?"
Or
"What's wrong with you?"
Then you are probably emotionally unstable, and they are asking it, because they don't understand why it is that you are FINE one moment but seem to lash out or become highly agitated the next; and NO, they don't think it's P.M.S.! They think that you are emotionally IMMATURE.
So What Does An Emotionally Stable Woman Look Like?
So now that you have an idea of what an emotionally unstable woman looks like to a man, here's an idea of what men are ACTUALLY looking for; an emotionally stable woman...
Handles her problems on her own, instead of creating more and more; and doesn't expect men to come in and clean up her life.
Takes responsibility for her mistakes or errors, instead of blaming others or creating arguments
Does not easily become upset over every problem that arises and is patient
Is comfortable with herself and does not always complain, whine, or display her insecurities constantly
Is able to understand and listen without making judgments and does not feel immensely hurt or angry if a man is honest with her
Etc....
In a nutshell, an emotionally stable woman has taken the time to REFINE her-self and work through her insecurities and worst qualities so that she is finally EXACTLY what she wants to be. Thus, she is comfortable with herself and is able to CONTROL her emotions.
So if you don't want to scare every guy away, you need to start working on taming and controlling the emotional side of your life, instead of always letting your emotions control you. Not sure how to do that? Well, listen closely to this next tip....
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