subject: Holiday Stress and Cheating – What's The One Thing You Can Do To End Stress Induced Cheating? [print this page] Holiday Stress and Cheating What's The One Thing You Can Do To End Stress Induced Cheating?
Holiday stress and cheating go hand in hand with men from all walks of life. Cheating represents an escape clause of sorts. There is a ton of pressure on men around the holidays to spend more, do more, and be more than they ever had the slightest desire to spend, do, or be. Every year it's the same old story. But, this holiday season you can write a different ending for your story by doing this one thing. Make sure you read every line to get the rest of the story.
You want your holidays to be picture perfect family time that is well suited for the family photo postcards you send out every year. It's a great plan but reality often falls short of even the best of intentions. So, where does this leave you, your husband, and your marriage?
It leaves you both stressed out and at the ends of your marital ropes in many cases. Add the current state of the economy on top of the general fa-la-la stress levels and your marriage may be well on its way to a nuclear meltdown unless you take fast action to head off the stress at the curb and take your marriage down the closest possible holiday stress detour.
Here are just a few things you can do that will reduce the likelihood of stress related cheating around the holidays for your husband this year.
1) Plan ahead. It's never too early to begin socking away money, making hand made holiday gifts and purchasing and storing small gifts for friends and family occasions you know are coming.
2) Keep a tight reign on the scheduling for holiday festivities and prioritize according to level of importance, interests, and necessity. Remember it's perfectly acceptable to say "no" to some of the invitations you receive this time of year.
3) Set a budget for holiday spending and stick to it. Going over budget is one of the biggest stressors at this delicate time of the year. Avoid over-extending your family financially even if it means you have to have a frank discussion with children, friends, and family about what can and can't be done this holiday season.
4) Ask your husband what he wants (not just as gifts but as far as celebrations, festivities, decorations, and expenses) and try to give it to him. When you are both on the same page for the holidays everyone in the family benefits and he is infinitely less likely to seek stress relief elsewhere.
5) Be sure to make time to spend with your husband this time of the year. It's easy to lose sight of what's really important this time of the year but your family (including your husband) is the most important thing to celebrate during the holidays. Remember to put them first and you'll all be happier as a result.
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