subject: Stripping Away the Responsibility [print this page] Stripping Away the Responsibility
Strip clubs always start innocently enough. Some guys are getting together to get drinks & play a quick round of look but don't touch. At this point the girlfriend/wife can make one of two decisions. Either let the guy go out and trust him not to cheat and have some sort of secret encounter with a stripper, or not let him go because of her inherent distrust and then face the guys scorn.
I personally don't see the point to strip clubs. You go, lose a bunch of money, and at the end leave all hot and bothered. Then you have to take care of yourself. Why not just resort to some porn that can indulge even your most bizarre fetish. Its free and you can do it from the comfort of your own home! Sorry, tangent. I've talked to girls and their answer depends on their own level of security in the relationship and in themselves. If a girl knows that her man is satisfied, both sexually and emotionally, she knows he won't stray. However, if a woman is frigid and prude, she might fear that her man might be looking for a little nookie to indulge in what he cant get at home.
Let's fast forward and assume the girl let the guy go see physically perfect girls dance around naked. Ladies, are you starting to regret your decision yet? At this point you're completely at the mercy of the guy and his genitals to make the right decision. What if he meets a cute stripper that happens to be getting off her shift so shes fully clothed and they strike a conversation. BAM! All of a sudden your man has a new friend with a less than picture perfect profession and from now on he's going to the club to see and talk to his friend. Is it ok then?
Conversely, whats worse, having secret encounters with his new friend at her job which could lead to an affair OR having the relationship open and known and be honest about it? Can honesty really save a relationship when a guy feels the need to go ogle at naked women that aren't his girlfriend or at this point is the relationship too far gone to be saved?
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