subject: How to Get Routines & Parenting Plans Working for You [print this page] How to Get Routines & Parenting Plans Working for You
I've been talking about Routines inside your family for a few weeks now, and I trust you've really started to gain some great insights into what can make routines work well for you. This is about getting the routines to be a structure that works for the good of your family ... not a routine that strangles the life out of you all! If routines become too stuffy, too rigid, too formularised, we lose the better part of what the structure is meant to provide.
I suppose it's like having a backbone without any flexibility. It would be really hard to move around during your day if you didn't have a spine that gave movement. If you didn't have a spine with strength, it also wouldn't really work either.
It's the balance between the strength of structure and the softness of flexibility that gives us comfort and movability throughout our days.
And, it's like this with routines.
We need to make sure that our family is living with a routine that really supports and enables our family to grow, move, change, and flex as we all develop.
I know that getting a strong routine working well for your family is a major key in making your Complex Family thrive. It's one of the most common reasons people end up in family courts - and it's also one of the most destructive elements on our children's lives!
If you would like to:
Know the answers to the most important questions about routines,
Gain in-depth knowledge that will truly transform your lives,
Understand the predictable consequences of your choices - so you'll learn from other's experiences,
Conveniently learn while you're in your own home, at a time that suits you,
Be able to work through the exercises by yourself, or share them with your Ex,
Work directly with me over email to gain clarification for your personal situation,
If your answer is 'Yes', then together we will cover the following fantastic topics in great detail, answering questions as we go:
How to create the best routine for your family
4 Key Principles your routine must have for your children's sake
How to solve the geographical problems with your Ex
Helping your children adjust to the differences between your home and your Ex's home
How to make handovers pleasurable for you and your children
Strategies to help your children settle when they're home from your Ex's place
How to stop yourself getting frustrated at lateness or no-shows of your Ex
When you're alone, how to cope with the house that's too quiet
Step by step process to working out a routine with your Ex and children
What to do when your teen wants to live with your Ex
Answering the hurt and issues when your Ex's significant other has your children
And more
All this for a very small investment which has long-lasting and positive effects on your family.
We know that the average cost of getting these issues sorted through your lawyers will cost $20,000 or more! Let's face it, they ask for a $1,000 deposit before they even see you!! Not to mention all the time you invest into it, the emotions that you feel and the levels of tension that your children feel between their parents...
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