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I have never known a parent that has not questioned their ability to be an effective parent. In fact, if you are questioning your ability, than you are in the right place.
As with many things in life, questioning is a part of adapting to situations that have evolved beyond our perceptions. Child rearing is no exception to this principle.
Children are constantly developing and adapting to their present environments, and may present consistent challenges to their parents authority as a result.
With this in mind, the techniques that we utilize as parents may become old or stale throughout this natural process in child development.
Like anything in life change is inevitable, and we must as adults learn to recognize and adapt to these changes.So questioning is a perfectly natural response.
What can happen in some cases, is that we become outcome focused, expecting the same responses from our children.
When we no longer receive what we perceive as the desired response we doubt, even sometimes to the point of questioning our own ability as parents.
If the doubt is not reconciled, there may be the possibility that our relationships to our child could become negatively effected. Living with doubt and regret alone cannot help you to become a better parent. Reconciling our doubt with action can.
So if you do question, great! If you do not like the answers that you get as a result, then search for better ones.
There are a lot of resources available out there for you.
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