subject: Things I've Learned From Women Who Have Dumped Me [print this page] Okay, Ill admit, Ive been dumped. More than once. More than Id like to admit, actually. And, while it hurt quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have grown from the experiences. That said, here are some things Ive learned from women who have dumped me.
#1: It Takes Two
Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the problem. Evaluate what went on so that you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.
#2: Give Women Their Personal Space
Women like to cuddle and snuggle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their personal space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We want to keep tabs on where theyre going and what theyre doing there. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key component in a relationship. When you invade your girlfriends personal space, you send the message that you dont trust her. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.
#3: You Get Stronger Over Time
When you wake up in the morning and the hurt is so real, you might believe you will never get over the break up. But the truth is, that not only does time heal all pain, but you will emerge from the break up a stronger person. As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche said, That which doesnt kill me only makes me stronger.
#4: Its Okay If It Wasn't Meant To Be
Coming to accept that a relationship wasnt meant to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future, considering marriage, thinking about children and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing. It is better to end a relationship that wasnt meant to be earlier rather than later.
#5: Good Things Don't Happen Unless You Make Them Happen
Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is, you cant control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what happened. If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen. That means dusting yourself off and getting back on the horse. Go out! Meet new women. Have some fun! Eventually, you will find another relationship and if you follow the advice in this article, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.
by: Steven Swank
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