subject: You Can Parent A Child With Adhd [print this page] As an adult that has struggled with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder for most of her life, I can say from experience how hard it can be to try to buckle down and focus on even the most important of tasks. It has only gotten more difficult as I have gotten older and had even more assignments given to me, with the sense of obligation becoming greater as time goes on.
Parenting a child with this problem is no picnic either. The struggles that arise tend to result in fights, tension, and even complete meltdowns--sometimes in public. Sometimes you can feel like you are judged by those around you because you supposedly cannot control your child.
But don't lose hope. I know this is easier said than done, but there are options available to you that can make your life--and your child's life--much easier to bear.
First off, you need to truly recognize that this is challenging, and it may always be so. Many people tend to dismiss ADHD as a "lesser" disorder and should be easily handled. But, like most mental health challenges, there are varying degrees of seriousness.
So, don't be afraid to admit that this is a serious problem. Doing so can assist you in recognizing the need for extra help. Counseling with a trained therapist and medication are often required to calm a child, allowing them to focus and stop acting out.
However, you ought not treat medication like it is a straightforward solution. Prescriptions that are formulated to treat ADHD can often have serious side effects and can, in the long run, make a child feel worse than they might if they were not medicated.
So, approach medication with caution. As the parent, it is your responsibility to do the research necessary to find out how your child might react. Remain in frequent contact with school counselors, therapists, and doctors that are involved in your child's treatment.
Make sure your child has an outlet for both physical and intellectual energy. Many children with this problem are, in fact, very intelligent but lack focus because many things don't spark their interest.
So help them pursue new interests outside of school, which should include sports or other physical activities. Be sure to reward good behavior with a healthy dose of their favorite activities.
You can enroll them in fun classes even if you are operating on a tight budget. Karate, club soccer, and afternoons with you on your favorite jogging trail will all be helpful for your child when they want to release extra energy.
Above all, show them you love them. They need your love and approval more than you can probably realize.
by: Art Gib
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