subject: Child Development - The Importance Of Bonding With Your Child [print this page] The intricate wiring of the limbic system shows that in order to learn and remember something, there must be sensory input, a personal emotional connection and movement. The instinctive rocking of babies - which combines movement, touch, and often accompanied by cooing or singing- is an example of human being's age-old wisdom to prepare babies for learning.
Babies who have warm, responsive care are more resilient later in life. By following your instincts to cuddle baby in activities such as this, you are providing the security and safety necessary for baby's healthy development.
The relationship between adult and baby can be nurtured through cuddling, rocking, and soothing sounds. The nature of Baby's relationship with his caregiver is an important source of his self-esteem.
The baby is ready from the beginning to interact with others. Interaction is dependent upon adults learning to read the baby's cues and matching her behaviors to baby's needs.
One of the primary factors in developing baby's strong emotional foundation is the connection between adult and baby. Making eye contact with baby is an important facet of this connection.
The human face is of great interest to babies, especially to infants. The eyes, eyebrows and mouth fascinate them and keep their attention. Being in position to focus on the adult's face helps baby feel calm and secure and can foster bonding between adult and baby.
The singing of lullabies provides optimum bonding opportunities. "Mothers have communicated love and warmth to their infant child through the singing of lullabies and songs...These simple activities give the baby a feeling of security and protection." Researchers have found that babies more easily fall asleep when their mothers sing to them. Mother's singing is a signal of safety and protection. - Good Music, Brighter Children, by Sharlene Habermeyer, pp.39-40
Humming along with the music provides a pleasurable experience for baby. The baby held close will feel and enjoy the comforting vibrations of the adult's body while hearing the soothing sounds of the hum.
by: Cheow Yu Yuan
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